Okay so yesterday I went up town with this really cute guy and we had a great time and he suggested that we should go bowling next week, but I don’t know if he just wants to be friends or if he actually wants to go out with me, but the day before yesterday we were talking about having sex with each other but I’m not sure if he was just joking or not… But I don’t want to ask him about it because ive em if he didn’t actually like me I’d still wanna be friends with him but it’d probably make things awkward if he knew
Been there, done that. I suggest you go out have fun and see if he makes a move. Then go back to his place or your place afterwards watch a movie or something see if you can get closer to him without it just coming off as weird or awkward and go from there. If you’re a little bit older a couple of drinks in a game of poker or truth or dare also works very well to find out whether or not they’re actively interested in you vs. Friending category. Also if you like going outdoors camping is a great way to find out whether or not he’s interested in you especially if you’re near by a lake or river or somewhere you can swim. Or you can just ask him. Sooner or later you’re going to have tan skin it’s just how much you sure that you need before you ask. The best way I found was just to say “not to seem weird or awkward your a great friend and you know that I like guys and I was wondering if you would like to go out with me?”. I’ve had mixed results have to admit butthe positive results were really positive. Good luck to you.